How To Become The Person You Always Dreamed You’d Be | B01
Dear you,
I’ve been thinking lately about the ways in which we hold ourselves back. Rather intentionally or subconsciously. I find myself often wondering what would’ve happened if I just did it, or why didn’t I just say that OR why did I say THAT? However, I do not want to focus on what I didn’t do in the past any longer. It seems like that only holds me back more. So, I’ve decided to change my ways in this second quarter of 2025. Building better habits should make me a happier and more successful Bri, right? lol. I'm sure you've had the same thoughts before.
So, what am I going to do? I am going to post whatever I want, wear the clothes that I feel most comfortable and beautiful in, go after the career I want, and let go of all that does not serve me. You can join me, imagine a life without looking back on the past with so many regrets or cringing I what you did do.
What does that look like? For me, it looks like discipline. I know that I won’t suddenly talk fluent Korean or Spanish in 2 weeks, but I can study for at least 30 minutes 4 times a week. I know the way my body currently feels and the months of 4-hour sleeps are no longer working for me— I can start prioritizing my health by getting 8 hours of sleep, at least 15 minutes of activity (dancing, walking, training my dog), and drinking at least 2 liters of water. I know that while my job is rewarding and my boss is amazing, I do not have the kind of devotion needed to sustain in the line of work. Therefore, I can clock out of my ‘9 to 5’ and put in hours towards my dream, making Seek & Revel my full time job, treating it as my job instead of a hobby. I know staying in the house, “resting" isn't making me happy. In fact, I think it makes me more anxious and sad. I can take small road trips on the weekends or I can call my friends and ask if they want to have a picnic, we all bring one snack, a blanket, and a book.
What does living your life in the most fullest and authentic way look like for you?
All of this to say, I realize what I want from Seek & Revel and what I hope you gain. Happiness. Growth. For yourself. Giving tools to guide someone (not only myself) to a better them, is so fulfilling to me. Maybe that's why I became a teacher? Maybe that's why I want to learn so many languages.
I digress.
With love,
Bri
(P.s. thanks for letting me ramble.) (P.s. p.s. I want us all to come back to this post in 6 months time (November) to reflect on where we are in life, no matter how big or small the changes.)